So we have about a week to go before the dance competition and it's beginning to get a bit worrying. There's still too much slow in our quick, quick slow and I seem to be getting confused between my jive and my cha cha steps.
Our biggest challenge, however, is us. You see there are two leaders in the partnership which is one too many. I keep reminding Anna that the male is supposed to lead but she wants to manage the partnership becomes she thinks she's the better of the two dancers. And she is right.
We need a lift too! Anna is slim and some have even called her petit. Trouble is she feels neither of these things when I try to get her in the air! Maybe we both need more dance lessons and me a few protein shakes.
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Wednesday, 15 March 2017
Monday, 13 March 2017
Unconscious Bias and that BBC Interview
They were all laughing about it at first. But now the whole thing seems to have turned a bit nasty.
Over the weekend a video clip showing an interview with an expert on Korea went viral.Not because of anything he said but due to the fact that at some point in the interview two of his children came rushing in and were promptly retrieved by a lady who clearly treated the matter with the utmost seriousness and urgency. Both she and the two children disappeared back through the same door pretty quickly. Maybe she had been watching the interview in another room only to see and to her horror, the two children in her care appearing on the screen behind Daddy? Yep that too would have sent me in something of a frenzy.
Fiona Bruce admitted on the news on Saturday that she had been laughing about the video clip all day.
But then social media starting analysing some commentary on the clips and people seemed to get angry very quickly. What had angered some was that many had talked about the lady in question as being the nanny and seemed to be making that assumption because she appeared to be of Asian origin. As it turned out she wasn't the nanny but the expert's wife and presumably mother of the two children as well.
So why is it that so many commentators made this mistake and just how surprising and offensive is it?
The answer is would seem is to be found in what is commonly referred as our "unconscious bias". Every day we take thousands of decisions and to do so efficiently (though not always effectively and accurately) we allow ourselves shortcuts. These shortcuts are executed by drawing on references in our brain that, already in storage, save us considerable time. In one way it's good and clever process. Without it, our decision taking would be seriously slowed down and we could end the day going to bed still undecided about whether to have chicken or ham for dinner or to bath the children that night.
But shortcuts have their disadvantages too. They often require us to work off quick assumptions and stereotypes that can lead us to draw wrong conclusions (as in this case), cause offence and on occasion too, behave in a way many would consider racist.
Ask any group in public to admit to being racist and they would all attest to being anything but (or at least you would hope so). But the fact of the matter is that none of us work off perfect and pure thinking and we all operate off biases to a point. The important thing is for us to realise this and to actively go after our biases with a view to containing and even eliminating them.
One of the best ways of achieving this is by doing training on "unconscious bias" in the workplace. Just a few scenarios for the trainee is usually enough to convince them that unconscious bias lurks in us all but can be relatively easily addressed. My own company offers training on unconscious bias which is offered as an e-learning package.
And here's a scenario for you. Let's imagine the expert on Korea was not actually the white male in the picture but the lady who looked like she was from that same country or perhaps a neighbouring. What shortcuts would we play in then? And where would that leave the white male? Retrieving the children I suppose - cue an awful lot more stereotyping.
Sunday, 26 February 2017
Tedx Is On!
So I have about 5 weeks now before I'm due to deliver my first ever Tedx Talk. It's entitled "Why it's time to ditch the open door policy in the workplace". Granted this is not a title that will change the world but it could improve a lot of workplaces if I can it right and manage to reach a large audience.
Prep so far I have to admit has been light. Very light. I have drafted, however, a road map through my presentation and it looks a bit like this :
Big Opening
Story 1 (Show yourself, set off pictures, vary speed & intonation, five senses)
Story 2 (Use pause, power of 3s, direct speech over narrative, contrast)
Head for Finish
REMEMBER : Show don't tell, Keep it simple, Be on the Audience!
So far I've read a number of books relevant to this challenge which have been really helpful. They include :
How to Deliver a Great TED Talk: Presentation Secrets of the World's Best Speakers
TED Talks Storytelling: 23 Storytelling Techniques from the Best TED Talks
Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds
How to Speak So People Really Listen: The Straight-Talking Guide to Communicating with Influence and Impact
The last one although not written specifically with a Ted Talk in mind I found to be the most useful.
What I've noticed in watching a good number of Ted Talks live now is that those that bomb or at least just don't connect with the audience are those that fail to come across as authentic. Overrehearsed Talks or at least those that appear overrehearsed seem least authentic of all.But here's the rub. I talked to one speaker safely through the otherside of a Ted Talk who clearly had rehearsed her presentation to death. She admitted that she had even recorded her voice and would play it back to herself in the car whilst driving to and from work to check its pace and intonation. And yet she pulled it off big time. She came across well and everyone I talked to afterwards really took to her.
So my task is to rehearse my presentation well (as soon as I know what it is I want to say that is!) without it appearing overrehearsed.
Ken Robinson's Talk is the No.1 favourite with bar far the most views because he adopted a very natural, chatty style that really connected. What I've realised is that delivering a reasonable Ted Talk is hard enough but a brilliant one requires huge effort, time and I dare say a bit of luck too.
Prep so far I have to admit has been light. Very light. I have drafted, however, a road map through my presentation and it looks a bit like this :
Big Opening
Story 1 (Show yourself, set off pictures, vary speed & intonation, five senses)
Story 2 (Use pause, power of 3s, direct speech over narrative, contrast)
Head for Finish
REMEMBER : Show don't tell, Keep it simple, Be on the Audience!
So far I've read a number of books relevant to this challenge which have been really helpful. They include :
How to Deliver a Great TED Talk: Presentation Secrets of the World's Best Speakers
TED Talks Storytelling: 23 Storytelling Techniques from the Best TED Talks
Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds
How to Speak So People Really Listen: The Straight-Talking Guide to Communicating with Influence and Impact
The last one although not written specifically with a Ted Talk in mind I found to be the most useful.
What I've noticed in watching a good number of Ted Talks live now is that those that bomb or at least just don't connect with the audience are those that fail to come across as authentic. Overrehearsed Talks or at least those that appear overrehearsed seem least authentic of all.But here's the rub. I talked to one speaker safely through the otherside of a Ted Talk who clearly had rehearsed her presentation to death. She admitted that she had even recorded her voice and would play it back to herself in the car whilst driving to and from work to check its pace and intonation. And yet she pulled it off big time. She came across well and everyone I talked to afterwards really took to her.
So my task is to rehearse my presentation well (as soon as I know what it is I want to say that is!) without it appearing overrehearsed.
Ken Robinson's Talk is the No.1 favourite with bar far the most views because he adopted a very natural, chatty style that really connected. What I've realised is that delivering a reasonable Ted Talk is hard enough but a brilliant one requires huge effort, time and I dare say a bit of luck too.
Wednesday, 8 June 2016
How to Send Out an Email which Makes an Impact
I sent out an email to LinkedIn contacts I had kind of lost touch with last week. It's caused quite a stir.
It goes like this :
"Exactly two years ago today I became a father for the first time in my life. Yes good things happen to those who wait…!
The days and the sleepless nights have shot by so quickly its gone by in a bit of a blur. I even feel like to others it may have resembled some kind of Norman Wisdom movie playing on fast forward.
So let me hit the pause button and tell you about five other things that have happened to me in the past 2 years :
"Exactly two years ago today I became a father for the first time in my life. Yes good things happen to those who wait…!
The days and the sleepless nights have shot by so quickly its gone by in a bit of a blur. I even feel like to others it may have resembled some kind of Norman Wisdom movie playing on fast forward.
So let me hit the pause button and tell you about five other things that have happened to me in the past 2 years :
- I
completed an Ironman last year in Vichy, France to mark my 50 years on
planet earth.
- I’m
still at the helm of Legal-Island (no coups!) after almost twenty years.
- My
friends tell me I have the ability to see the strength in people and I
have a passion for developing them. (Not just my employees but
individuals I come across day to day) My plan is to keep on doing this.
- I
am still looking for new ways of learning (hence my new eLearning
endeavour and my current Russian lessons via skype)
- I
firmly believe training carried out correctly can open people’s minds and
change habits making the Island of Ireland a better place in which to
live.
Most of the above I couldn’t have done on my own but had to rely on a lot of people like you to help me. Many of these people I had known for a long time but others I bumped into recently and met only fortuitously.
At one time we connected for a reason. So why not send me your top five things or simply get back in touch? Who knows where it could lead…
Barry Phillips, Chairman
Legal-Island"
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Why not leave your five below?
Sunday, 6 March 2016
The Morrison case – Vicarious Liability 3 things every employer should know and do
Last week, the Supreme Court ruled that Morrisons were vicariously liable for the
behaviour of one of its employees which included an unprovoked racist assault
on a customer.
The ruling
will be difficult to comprehend by many particularly as the assailant was not
acting on any instructions from his employer and indeed appeared to be on, what
might be referred to as “a complete frolic of his own”.
The notion
of vicarious liability is not easily grasped by employers. Nor does it always
appear to produce fair outcomes. With some justification employers (particularly
those unrepresented) can be heard to plea in Employment Tribunals that certain
acts of their employees were below their field of vision and not the type of
behaviour that you would ordinarily expect. Employers might be heard to
protest:
“how can I be expected to watch
over the actions of all my staff every working hour of every working day to
make sure they don’t fall foul of equality legislation or indeed the criminal
law?. I’ve work to do and a business to run”
But the
concept of vicarious liability is not a new one. As the Supreme Court noted in
yesterday’s judgment it began to develop at the beginning of last century.
No doubt
many people will be analysing yesterday’s judgement to see what more employers
need to do now to protect themselves against this sort of liability. But the
truth is that the answer is already clear. It’s just a pity and also quite
surprising that employers don’t follow the advice that many employment lawyers
would offer them.
The employer
needs to do 3 things :
1. Have an
up-to-date equality and diversity policy
2. Have an
up-to-date equality and diversity policy that is actively implemented
throughout the organisation
3. Do
regular (preferably annual) equality and diversity training for all staff.
These
actions will not prevent every example of the type of behaviour under scrutiny
by the Supreme Court yesterday but they provide the best chance for an employer
to root out and deal with employees who are likely to be behave like this. They
also provide the best opportunity for an employer to prove it had done all it
reasonably could be expected to do to make sure an incident similar to the one
in this case never took place.
Vicarious
liability is not an absolute concept but it does require all employers to be
proactive.
Mr A M
Mohamud (in substitution for Mr A Mohamud (deceased)) v WM Morrison
Supermarkets plc [2016] UKSC 11
Barry
Phillips is a former practising barrister and now chairman of Legal-Island a
leading compliance company Legal-Island
Thursday, 11 February 2016
Why its More Aw Shucks thank Big Bucks for Starbucks this week
This
week Starbucks is in the news but for all the wrong reasons. Defeats in
Tribunals never make good news for employers particularly when delicate issues
relating to disability discrimination are at stake.HR commonly refer to employment issues as “internal matters” but they can go “external” very quickly.
The
Starbucks case was just one of many queuing up to be heard in a London
employment tribunal last year. This week, even before a decision had been taken
on compensation levels, the case was all over social media and even made it to
the BBC’s 9 O'clock News last night.
The
complainant said Starbucks treated her like she was a fraud because of how she
handled the paperwork and that she considered taking her own life as a result
of her treatment. Generally, employment tribunals don't deliver huge awards
-certainly not in comparison to the United States where even labour law judges
are known to adjourn with a bag of noughts to calculate appropriate levels of
compensation.
Starbucks
may be worried a sizeable award is on its way now that the case has hit the
headlines but the real damage has been done to its reputation which its PR arm
will no doubt be working hard to correct over the coming months.
They
could start by letting it be known that each and every one of its staff is now
doing equality and diversity training. This sort of training is something
it should have been doing for a long time already.
In
the old days of employment training (now called Learning and Development) for
an employer to train all of its staff on a single issue was often nothing short
of a logistical nightmare. This was particularly the case where an employer,
like Starbucks, had employees dispersed
over a multitude of sites or with many workers on assignments in other parts of
the country or even abroad. Nowadays, with the advent of online learning such
training can be done very easily. Starbucks I’m sure, could provide each outlet
(if they haven’t already done so) with a PC, laptop or tablet on which all
staff could periodically complete online training – perhaps during a quiet
period of the day in the corner of the café no doubt with a fine latte in-hand.
But
this welcome development in online learning has proved to be something of a
double edged sword for employers. For Tribunals now know that such training is
easy to do and therefore they expect to see evidence that it has been done. In
pre-Internet days Tribunals were given to being far more flexible on the
matter.
Of
course, every employer should be doing equality and diversity training. Not
just to keep themselves legally tight but because it should lead to a fairer
workplace for all.
Tuesday, 2 February 2016
E-Learning Child Protection and Equality and Diversity
It's all happening at Legal-Island at the moment. We've spent the last few weeks furiously planning the year to come and finally as we enter February we're ready to put it all into action.
Early this year we'll be launching our new Hub which will completely change the way we deliver our information. We're also developing our e-learning services too.Over 1,000 organisations have now used our e-learning benefiting more than 27,000 employees. Not bad considering we launched our first e-learning module less than 2 years ago.
Our e-learning modules for Child Protection and Equality and Diversity have been getting rave reviews.
Legal-Island let's go! It's all to play for!
Early this year we'll be launching our new Hub which will completely change the way we deliver our information. We're also developing our e-learning services too.Over 1,000 organisations have now used our e-learning benefiting more than 27,000 employees. Not bad considering we launched our first e-learning module less than 2 years ago.
Our e-learning modules for Child Protection and Equality and Diversity have been getting rave reviews.
Legal-Island let's go! It's all to play for!
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